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Wednesday, 19 August 2009

  • It's 10 to 12, I only got 10 minutes to write. Actually, I had shut down the computer, thought it's a big day today, I gotta record this historical day. TODAY I GOT MY FIRST CAR! Congratulations! Even it's a used 2002 Mitsubishi Lancer used car, still memorable. I drove it home carefully, Kathy even reminded me not scratch my car, parked it right on my spot-75. Tomorrow's gonna be the first day for school, I barely believe I can really make it. Since I got here the 1st day of this month, it's been 18 days, I have done a lot, renting, cable, energy, classroom, 2 classrooms, got this car...wow, I am good, I don't even compliment myself like this. Tonight, 30 mins cooking + eating+ watching yanglan program;20 mins making a phone call for Min Jie; 10 mins consult about Chinese Chess, 5 mins reply Jiaoyou, 1 hr for lesson tommorrow, 7 mins finally for this journal...I believe, if you jus want it, you will get it!

    Good Night!!

    11:58 finished.

Tuesday, 28 July 2009

  • Just ignored mom's 3 calls while listening to MJ's memorial poem on his funeral. I cried, again, almost every time, only when she calls. I guess I needed her support badly, but, she barely offered any. I went to Clinton's Library, I wanted to share with her my feeling of honer that I will get to teach in the same school district as Clinton's. She was too busy to listen to me but only so called 'the thing". I was trying so hard to cook for the girls, I was so proud and wanted her to be proud of me too. She was not interested in it. I felt I was learning a lot in this full schedule training and wanted to let her know about this. She was still calling me home.

    5 months to 30, I was glad I realized how precious the life is, and how we should appreciate our life time in this wonderful world. Frankly, I don't want to just live normally as most of relatives, even though, quite few of them have their special thought too. I want my life not only just good, but wonderful, exciting, thrilling, unforgettable and influential to my next generation, and generations' generation.

    As I know this world better, as I know this society better, as I know the people around me better, I feel I need to be stronger to face it, to 'go to the mattresses"I will get there I believe.

Tuesday, 21 July 2009

  • It's a wonderful world!?

    I just put a question mark at the end of the sentence. I doubted this wonderful world or awful world.I should never say this, or even doubt this wonderful world, for my sake, such a positive person.

    I fought with mom again, I am sick of it, it has been almost half a year since she left the States.I wish I could found my simply calling-with-her-rutine, just like Lily, like Yue, like me before. I am always wondering if I could be a good mom in the future, probably, I am more interested in how soon will be that future. Should I just compromise going back, get back my job in CQ, find whoever whatever to get married to. I doubted my decision, only because of her. Is there anyone could just give me a hand behind me, push me a little when I am about to lean back, hold me a little when I am about to fall. Will I be a good mommy when I see my child doing something against me still standing by him/her supporting them? I wish to have a baby, I can drive, with her in her car seat of the passenger seat next to me;when I go shopping, I can carry her car seat walking trough the parking lot, pulling down her sun shade, make sure she won't get any sun-burn; I can put her into the shopping cart while shopping. If I have a baby girl, I will dress her like a little princess every day, buy her as many dresses as little Suri has.If I have a baby, when she/he started to talk, or recognize this world, I will take him/her to as many places as possible....am I writing a motherhood journal. Dear L, please, please do not make any man screw it up in my life any more, I am done with it, through with it. I just have that little bit wish, to have my won family. Yeah, that's my biggest wish so far.

Sunday, 26 April 2009

  • Love...

    Have been watching Celine's music for the whole week, obsessed with it...all about love. I guess this is his will making me understand love more, all kinds of love...love between family, love between couple, love between people in the world. Finally I understand what I want truely, what I should look for in my life anywhere anytime, like what Carrie said, I am the one looking for TRUE love.

    Woke up about 9:30 this morning, thinking I should write something to Tony, making some confession about...about this family, about the frequently saying "I love you.",about my feeling....but I didn't do it eventually.

    For the last 24hrs, I only had a grapefruit, don't want anything even now. Stay in my room, find myself, find my spirit back, which has been taken away recently.What Matthew said in "addicted to love"? Hollow! I cannot feel anything at the bottom of heart, they may be not heavy enough to stay there all the time, flew away, was stolen ,emptied by the evil. My love, my loyalty , my faith (no, I still reserve my faith...). I felt bored on Friday first time, i was wandering in Wal-mart, doing nothing, checking every aisle,just to kill the time, or not willing to come home.

    i keep telling me, I didn't actually lose anything,to comfort myself. Why was I still so sad? I did have something missing-my love. I felt so sad but no tears came out. Finally "To love you more" pulled all the tears out, i realized how sad I was then.

    But, i am still looking forward to next Friday...still counting down....

Monday, 06 April 2009

  • SHE;ME

    看了sherry寫的博克,熱淚盈眶,有甚麼比遙遠的朋友聽懂自己的心聲更感動的。不知道最近有多少事情發生,我銀該說在我心裡產生。數不清有多少個夜晚,多少個白天,我獨自考慮那些煩心的事。也數不清有多少個“候選人”在我心裡被當成美好人生伴侶的憧憬對象。數不清,有多少個names被劃出那個候選list,更數不清,自己給了自己多少的questions,又給出了多少答案。

    終於兩點讓我想清這還沒問題的答案。2007年的初夏,一頭霧水的我是怎樣最終走出來的,faith;pray;faith;pray除了對他的信任,我還能幫他分擔甚麼嗎?2009年的初夏,我又是霧水一頭,我又多大的能耐?沒有!不如把一切都交給他吧!

    感謝Celine Dion 的That's the Way It Is;A New Day Has Come讓我充滿鬥志每一天。我慶幸我的生命中都有那麼多的inspiration。我會在適當的那一天把A New Day Has Come送給阿ken,如果命運給我機會。

    以下截至sherry的博克

    “亲爱的ALICE,你总是另一面的她,独立、勇敢、理智,
    对近在咫尺的怀抱与绿卡,还是妥协不下自己最真实的想法,
    她如此明白你,并为你骄傲,她只要你忠于自己的内心,做最自然的自己。”


    謝謝你,我親愛的sherry,我們會是一生的姊妹。

    I Love You!

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